Well, you know what? I actually did cry at the wedding at least 3 times!!! Both tears of joy and sadness.
Starting on Wednesday, my family and I (mom, dad, my brother(Loc)and his girlfriend), drove from NJ to Binghamton, NY. ( If you haven't upstate, you probably don't know where it is and probably until now didn't even knew that it exists.) From there we drove to Rochester,.NY ( you probably don't know where that is either),. where my brother (the groom) and his soon to be wife lived.We left around 12 in the morning so we got there around 7a.m,Thursday. So from there we went to our hotel, and so, while my brother, Loc and his girlfriend went to go help decorate the Chapel for the wedding, my mom, my dad, and I stayed at the hotel and got some shuteye! (HA HA!My brother had to work and i got to go to sleep even when he drove all the way here which was a seven hour drive!

Even though he was the one that was the one that was sleepy and he was the on that was tired!! But i heard that before he went to go help, he got some sleep anyway.) So afterward, around 3 or 4, my other brother came to pick me and my parents up to go to someone's house for a barbecue. So for the rest of the day we stayed there (which was probably until 11 or 12)

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The next day around 3 o'clock, I went with my brother to the Chapel to help with more decorations. Man!!! It was really big and really hottttt!

and guess what?! There was only a small little fan. After about 2 hours I thought I was just gonna die of heat but it all was worth it because that day I met my new sister,(technically, she was there the whole time(meaning even though i never met her before this she was still
there) and she is pretty old (not that old!!!)!
NO, for all of you out there who think that i
just met my new sister-in-law ( if you did slap yourselves!).
But anyway she was my blood related half-sister. Seriously, at first I thought that it was not going to turn out well and that it was going to take a while before I wrapped all of this information around my head and even till today I am still a little confused. It was hard for me to accept the fact that I had
more family, but even though I was scared I had to suck all of it up and take it because even though I was afraid either way she was my sister and if that is how God wanted it to be, then who am I to say no?... Anyway I always wanted a sister! After a while, people came to the church so that they could rehearse the wedding reception. ( Even then except for saying hello, I didn't really start to talk to her yet, so at that ti
me we didn't) After they rehearsed it once, they decided to rehearse it again. Loc said that it was pretty hot and that Gerry(my sister) was hungry, so since I was hungry too I decided to tag along with them. Until then Gerry and I didn't really talk and even then we really didn't. But then, when all three of us were in the car I felt a little more comfortable and I started to open up more. When we came back because 1 we couldn't find any place to eat since we didn't know where to go, 2 the rehearsal was done, we came back. I tag along with Gerry more and we got to talk a little more. When we came back, people started leaving so we left too but this time, all of us siblings were there and my brother's girlfriend, but Tommy , Gerry's brother also wasn't there though probably because h
e is only seven and there was no more room in the car. During that time, I felt very happy and warm hearted, and I know that everyone felt the love that was be passed all around. We laughed a whole lot and at that moment I knew that I would have never wanted that feeling of being with my brothers and sisters to ever change. I knew at that moment that God was giving me a love that he knew that I wanted to feel for a long time. Even though I did not talk to my sister
that much, I felt that she knew everything about me and that her love for me would be a love that would neve
r change or fade away. God put some thing precious in my life and I would never ever forget what great thing that he has given me.Even though the day started out rough, it turned out to be one of the best days of my life.

Wedding day!! The reception was great.The wedding dress was pretty awesome and my brothers looked sharp as well.

After it I went to eat BBQ at my brother's house. A while after I got to go to my sister's hotel It was nice because we went swimming and i got to hang out with her. She is a really great person and I thank God every day because he gave us that chance to meet each other. The Dinner was awesome and I enjoyed the company of friends and family being around me. The farewell was a little hard for me. I was so happy to see my brothers again and enjoyed being around them all at once. I was happy to be able to have met my sister but sooo sad that she had to leave so soon. But I know that I will be able to see her again soon. It was a great change in my life and I am very thankful that I have this opportunity. I'd like to end with this... God is great and I am glad for all of the things he put into my lives especially my brothers and sisters.